I was born in the UK, a small town outside of London. I was schooled locally and attended the university in the UK too. It was in my last year of attending the University that I met my deceased wife of 16 yrs. I was a bit of a wild "boy" back then, sports, drinking, girls, and cramming for tests. She shaped me most into the man I am today (well her, my mother, my sister do you see a trend here? Women).
I am grateful for her strength and determination and love to have the will, heart and desire to do all that she did. When she got sick and God took her home, I was so mad. Those 5 stages of grieving are very much true, although they don't come with a timetable. Its taken me 6 years to reach acceptance and a want to continue on. In my determination to rebel against my fate I "ran away". I joined a shipping company as a Longshore man. I just left.
But now I am back. I've been back for about a year getting my land legs back and I find I am missing the company of a solid home and a good woman. So here I am looking for you
No I am not looking for my wife in another woman. That part of my life is history. I do have a future and one I want to share with the right woman for me now. I still have a passion to watch my sports, (remember I hail from the UK so football to me is soccer to all of you here). I still enjoy a beer or two, (I've slowed down in this area of my life a lot. I don't want to miss out on life because of a headache from the night before.) I am easy going. I do like to travel but I also like to spend time at home and lazing around in a hammock in the backyard. Or riding my Harley along the back roads want to come along for a ride? Its been a few years but I still think I enjoy taking to the sky, yes I fly planes, small ones.
I guess I am a bit of a risk taker and a loner. I have come to the point in my life that I am lonesome even in a crowd (did I mention I am shy?). So if you are interested drop me a note and lets see if the sparks fly. Lets get to know one another. Take a chance. I will if you will.
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